South Africa's All Time Top 10 mPUA's- Plus My Top 5

1. Lloyd de Jongh aka Greyghost (now in Dubai)

2. Marc Rees aka Swanky (Johannesburg)

3. Erik Petermann (Cape Town - retired)

4. Zedwie van Zyl (Johannesburg)

5. Baron Boom (Johannesburg)

6. Garshwin April (Cape Town)

7. H (Johannesburg)

8. Yusuf Moses aka Mr. Uitenhage (Uitenhage)

9. Harley aka Real Casanova (Pretoria)

10. Bevin du Plessis (Johannesburg)

This is the opinion of Ramon Thomas (i.e His list).... What are your guys thoughts of the list...

Personally I would have, Hunter, Fabio, Adam, Cyllos on the list.

My Top 5 mPuas in aphabetic order would have to be:

1. Adam
2. Fabio
3. H
4. Hunter
5. SleepyCat

Peace

Coffee with mPua "H" or "Mr H"

A few of you may have heard of "H", He is one of my closest buddies that I met a while back- we both started off more or less at the same time.

Yeah we were pretty shit back then, but I always enjoyed having him as my wingman.

A little about him: He was rated the 7th Best Pick Up Artist in South Africa. Personally I think He should be in the top 5 (I will put the list up on My Blog). He is an off the wall character. Never a dull moment when he is around!

He is one of the most successful businessmen I know at the tender age of 23.

Ok- H... that's enough blowing smoke up your ass!

Anyway he came past my office for a meeting that he had in the building and we were just discussing how different guys have different talents- and how each person should embrace their own personal style to benefit them best. There are way too many guys out there trying to be someone they are not.

You guys care to guess what the different styles and methods are?

Peace
Baron Bloom

Play Boy Baron Bloom

"The playboy son of a property tycoon faced the threat of prison today even though he was cleared of sexually assaulting a schoolgirl.
Baron Bloom, 28, of Mayfair, once considered one of London's most eligible bachelors, was this afternoon found not guilty of indecent assault against the 14-year-old. "

You may think this is me..... but Its not!!!, just had a good laugh when I found this royal dumbass chop who is giving the real Baron Bloom a bad name!

Here is the link to the article!

http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/news/article-4383422-playboy-faces-jail-for-sex-assault.do#

Lets hope I stay out the press for a while ;)

Cheers
Baron
www.attractionschoolonline.com

Workshop Time- Plus Kenny The Retarded Tiger

Yo Guys

Whats Up

Holding another workshop this evening..... Its a great learning curve and you really up your game when you have to teach someone else. Got 3 students... Should be awesome!

Other than that I just checked out the funniest picture ever... My buddy Adam Sent it through to me

Its a website- dedicated to Kenny the retarded Tiger. Have a look- it will definitely crack a laugh
http://kennynight.ytmnd.com/

Cheers
Baron Bloom

How To Deal With Your Ex Girlfirend!

Something you might no know about me..... but I sit next to my ex of 4 years at work- She literally sits 1 meter away from me! We work for the same company- back in my AFC days I got her an interview at my company.....I had my reasons back then and they sounded awesome at the time (like travelling overseas together blah blah fish paste) IF you take anything out of this post- NEVER, NEVER EVER get your girl friend a job at work! Trust me on this one!

It's not a great idea- it was extremely challenging to deal with in the beginning but I honestly feel like being forced to be exposed to me EX has taken my game to a new level. I can honestly deal with ANYONE- after dealing with her. (rather learn from me- it much easier than experimenting yourself)

How to Deal with your EX Girlfriend!

It's all about setting boundaries and respecting yourself. There is no way you can deal with all the emotional mind games and shit tests an EX can throw at you- IF YOU DON'T PUT Boundaries up.

It would be like like going into a rugby match (or American football- for our American readers) without a strategy. No matter how good your players (Game is) are if you don't have clear direction you will lose to a much weaker opponent.

For Example- I went for lunch with my EX today- and I decided in my mind (before I went for lunch) that no matter how good things went with her, I would not kiss her/ sleep with her... This put me in a position of power because I acted in such a way that I did not need anything from her. This actually drove her crazy and made her want me more.

Patience. So if I wanted to sleep with her- I could have carried on and she would try make a plan to visit me after work (don't force it- wait and be patient- it will happen)- don't invite her- rather let her invite herself. Personally I'm seeing someone that I really like so I'm not gonna score her- but this is just an example of how to do it if you wanted to.

In summary if you wanna get your ex back- obviously be CCC.

- Relax.

- Be patient.

- Set boundaries.

- Try Move on.

- Keep the power in your court.

Peace,

Baron.

Check Out Sleepycats latest post on Facebook game it's pure brilliance!

p.s Scoring your EX is like chewing old chewing gum

Day Game- A Quick Field Report + Tips

Day Game is something that should be Fun- during the day people are relaxed, girls are off guard and you don't have to do anything special. Sounds simple but it is really important to have that in your mind. Sleepycat mentioned in our latest newsletter that Day Game- should feel like a scene from a romantic comedy! Even if you are a little shy and Clumsy you can still pull it off. Think of Hugh Grant... yes he isn't my favorite actor- but she somehow always manages to get the girl BECAUSE he is sincere. BE SINCERE!

First you have got to establish what your goal of day game is- if you don't know what you are working towards then you cant drive it home(this applies to all types of pickup). Either your goal is just to have fun, or get her number, take her on an instant date or lastly kiss her.

Don't get your hopes up on the last option because it is very unlikely.
For me I like to have fun and bounce the girl somewhere- especially ice cream- The one thing I have in common with most girls is- my love for ice cream!

The best part is that it is simple, fun, spontaneous and non threatening! Try it.

I was running a workshop with one of my students (Duke).... and we decided to experiment with a bit of day game.... @ the Zone in Rosebank (JHB, South Africa)

This is how it went...

Set 1: I walked past a girl at the sunglasses rack, I commented that the set of pink dorky glasses will suit her better (she was trying a pair on) (making a Cocky and Funny Comment is a great way to open during the day)..... she laughs and says no.....I tease her a bit and tell her to be a sport. Eventually after much negotiation and teasing she decides to try them on… I then hand her another set, and another and another...All along I give my humble yet amusing opinion on what looks good and what doesn't. She then starts picking out pairs for me to try on.....
Nothing material came of this interaction- but it was fun and playful.

Set 2: Duke takes a shirt and asks a mother and daughter set if they like the shirt, they proceeded to give their opinion- I walk up with a bright Pink shirt, and interrupt "I think this will suit him better" they laughed, I went to find another ridiculous outfit and kept re-entering the set. This is great wingman game- as it allows the guy who opens to keep chatting while the wingman keeps spicing up the conversation as it does down.

Set 3: Duke asks a girl if the Top we are looking at is a guy/girls top.... She was friendly- but later we discovered her BF was also in the shop. She was cool and friendly.

Set 4: Nintendo Wii girl. Opened her asking if big boys were also allowed to play. Ended up teasing her about how lame Wii is- its for fat kids that cant play sport. She defended it, and I took the conversation in the direction of "how would you feel if you got invited on a date and the guy wanted to play Wii with you." -She said that she wouldn't mind, so long as the date included dinner at his place. I then transitioned into wanting to fill in her customer satisfaction form- teased her that I would give her a bad rating. I then said "I bet you must get a whole bunch of old guys hitting on you while their kids are playing Wii".
I closed her by asking for her email address. It was very natural and smooth- she had no hesitation in giving it to me. (the whole interaction was about 5-10 minutes)

In summary- Day game is all about having fun! Appear to be a cool guy, be calm and be confident and the girl will love it (CCC). If you're having fun, 95% of the time she will have fun too. Don't worry about closing- some girls you will close some girls you won't. Don't take it personally

We opened 4 sets in 20 minutes- we had a good time, and the girls we opened had a good time, I'm also pretty sure something will come of the Wii girl. There is no need to be amazing, just make a start and things will happen. Get out the House!

Note: Don’t be a stalker during day game- if you in a clothing shop look at cloths don't just walk around eyeing out sets.

I just wrote a news letter on day game. If you sign up for free on my website, it will get sent to you, along with.... how to kiss close, how to open, how to isolate.... blah blah blah.......(http://www.attractionschoolonline.com/)
Peace
Baron

Journey to a New Life- Cool Calm Confident (CCC)

The last year has been on of the most amazing years of my life… there is no feeling better than knowing you have grown and become a better man all round. I want to share a little bit of my journey with you.

I initially got into pickup after reading “the game” like most guys do. I was under the impression that to be a good pickup artist you had to be someone you are not. Like being an actor on a stage- problem is that this works great in some circumstances but it is soul destroying knowing that girls only like the fake Mystery/Style or whoever you are trying to be. Deep down you will NEVR ever develop inner game if you know you can’t pick up girls by being yourself? Think about it!

I went through a journey of self discovery- I opened myself up to all the dark corners of my heart and mind and fought tirelessly with myself till I conquered all my insecurities, dark emotions and feelings of not being good enough. These things get etched in our minds from a young age brought on by different negative situations we encountered growing up; it could be friends, rejection, parents, embarrassing moments, and abuse whatever… Everyone has there dark secrets that we block out- even to ourselves.

My challenge is: Be willing to see yourself for who you are, and most importantly for whom you want yourself to be….. Start mapping the new you to the old you, then deal with the issues that prevent you from being the amazing person you were created to be.

Once I over came my insecurities and issues, my Game exploded exponentially. People I knew from my past cant get over how I’ve changed. You may have heard of my style (CCC) Cool calm confident- We’ll for me CCC has become a life style. I honestly feel cool, calm and confident- radiates with whoever I meet, In Business, life and pickup.

The feeling of knowing that this girl is completely attracted to me, for me is one of the most satisfying feelings you will ever have in life- you get a point where you stop caring what people think about you because you are happy enough with yourself. I hope you all reach that point in your life- sooner rather than later.

Give me your comments and feel back.
Peace
Baron